One thing that people do while dating is waste time, and if you are a 20 or 30 something year old male or female that knows what you want out of a mate why waste time with someone that is not on the same track as you? If you are a person that has goals and you are actually working towards achieving them, why place time and energy on dating someone that doesn't have a goal and has no interest in making a good life for their self. Here are 5 things that you should know about a person so that you aren't wasting your time or theirs.
1. What are their goals? If your goal oriented and insist on setting an amount of achievements for yourself, that you feel will lead you to live a fuller, richer happier life, then it's wise to find out that person's goals. If they are happy with sitting taking the ride wherever life leads them then maybe you aren't a match. Some people live their life based on their goals others just go with the flow, and if there's a lifestyle clash there are more clashes to come.
2. Standards are a very important factor in a relationship. It's important to know what you or that person will or will not tolerate in the relationship. Women have certain standards that they set for their potential mate, they may not tolerate you putting your mother before them or they may want you to make a certain amount of money.
3. Morals are important to have and to know for present and future reference. Topics such as abortion, marriage, sex and living together should be addressed early in the dating process. Not too early but give or take about a week or two. You will be surprised how fast a relationship can disintegrate when pregnancy becomes a fact and someone doesn't believe in termination or sex before marriage.
4. Expectations from any person can be high or low. When a person has certain expectations for their mate you should know in advance so that you will be able to determine if you can fulfill those expectations. A woman may expect you to take out the trash even if you all aren't cohabitating together, a man may expect you to not hang out with your friends as often or have male friends.
1. What are their goals? If your goal oriented and insist on setting an amount of achievements for yourself, that you feel will lead you to live a fuller, richer happier life, then it's wise to find out that person's goals. If they are happy with sitting taking the ride wherever life leads them then maybe you aren't a match. Some people live their life based on their goals others just go with the flow, and if there's a lifestyle clash there are more clashes to come.
2. Standards are a very important factor in a relationship. It's important to know what you or that person will or will not tolerate in the relationship. Women have certain standards that they set for their potential mate, they may not tolerate you putting your mother before them or they may want you to make a certain amount of money.
3. Morals are important to have and to know for present and future reference. Topics such as abortion, marriage, sex and living together should be addressed early in the dating process. Not too early but give or take about a week or two. You will be surprised how fast a relationship can disintegrate when pregnancy becomes a fact and someone doesn't believe in termination or sex before marriage.
4. Expectations from any person can be high or low. When a person has certain expectations for their mate you should know in advance so that you will be able to determine if you can fulfill those expectations. A woman may expect you to take out the trash even if you all aren't cohabitating together, a man may expect you to not hang out with your friends as often or have male friends.
Good points you have covered, i think all person before dating, must go through this article keep post such article nice work.......
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